Be your authentic self to emanate authentic energy
Be present and not in the future (anxious) or past (depressed), focused on HER. Breathe properly or discern body sensations. You become self-expressive when present.
Be curious about the female and actually enjoy interacting. Have the urge to learn about her.
Be unorthodox with your methods. Women notice different men. Tease instead of praise.
Realize that women reactive emotional creatures, ask emotional-based questions.
Do not worry about the things to say but rather focus on how to say things. Be descriptive with voice tonality. Never raise your voice towards the ends of your sentence.
Reality is a reflection of your perception.
Women can subconsciously detect an insecure, low self-esteem soy boy through the vibe and nonverbal cues that you, men are unconscious.
A conversation is an exchange of emotions and energy/vibe. So be positive, cool, calm and collected. If you're anxious she will get anxious. Energy is contagious.
Hold onto your reality, do not let criticism or ridicule taint your state of mind.
Instead of making her feel that you are the best person that has ever existed on this Planet, maker Her feel that she is the best thing that has ever existed on the Planet.
Realize that the brain has a negativity bias, we naturally are inclined towards the negative. Convert your self-critic into self-compassion (love yourself); instead of berating yourself treat yourself with encouragement, kindness or warmth. Become your best friend.
Take nonverbal communication (facial expressions, facial gestures, body language) into consideration when communicating; psychology affects physiology.
Speak slower, nod slower and take pauses before speaking.
Women don't remember what was said but rather how they felt.
Read "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene
Get in a playful state because remember females are like any other human they want to have fun.
Remember that you are like a movie add suspense, love, comedy, action, and adventure. Take things slowly, be deliberate and spontaneous. Do not spoil the movie.
Mirror her body language and tone to build instant rapport. Build trust through non-judgment and by making her feel comfortable. (NLP)
Make warm confident eye contact, the eyes are the window to the soul.
Never treat women as a superior but as an equal or subordinate. Make her feel good about herself but not way too good (avoid being too unrealistic)
Expect her to like you, but be aware if she doesn't. Not all women are the same just as not all guys are the same.
Make her love herself via compliments or hints; women are all insecure about their appearance. Giving her reassurance builds attraction.
Do not focus on the outcome, but the process. Eliminate expectations.
Dress to impress women make predetermined notions about you and who you are via appearance. Be aware that communication is more important for females overall. Dressing well is just to get you to the communication part. Males are focused on visuals while females are more focused on verbal things. That's why you can see really ugly guys sometimes with a much better-looking female: we love nice words.
Possess power (status, wealth, expertise, strength), warmth (compassion, empathy) and presence (being in the moment).
Screen, screen, screen. Not all women are the same. Figure her type out and cater to her desires.
Women fall in love with you when they are thinking about you not when you are with them so make an impression. Make the feeling they felt while with you last.
Do not play with her emotions. If you are only using this to bed her once, don't act surprised if she wants to destroy you afterward. These steps are to help to get a female's attention and try to see if you two fit in a relationship. If she feels used and betrayed, she can easily take revenge on you .... and you will deserve it.
Make these steps a habit, a routine. If you only do these for a short while you will appear fake.
+++ BONUS STEP
BOUNDARIES!! Create boundaries that you communicate clearly. Every human needs to create a line that says what is okay and what is not okay in a relationship. If you do not communicate them clearly, don't expect them to happen. You need to set up the "mutual laws of the relationship" so there is no misunderstanding. Most arguments are coming from misunderstanding. Prevention is better than trying to solve a war between you two.
Good luck :)
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